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Why Men Are Quietly Breaking: Mental Health, Dating, Fatherhood & the Pressure to “Man Up” | Unfiltered Friday

Richard Craft Season 2025 Episode 184

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Men are struggling — quietly, relentlessly, and often alone — and society still tells them to “man up.”
This Unfiltered Friday episode rips the lid off the invisible burdens modern men carry in 2026 and asks the question no one wants to answer: Why is male pain still treated as disposable?

We dive head-first into the uncomfortable truths most conversations avoid:

Men’s mental health crisis — Suicide rates remain nearly 4x higher for men, loneliness is exploding, and AI-driven job displacement is stripping away identity and purpose. Vulnerability is celebrated everywhere… except when men express it. Why?

Dating, divorce, and relationship double standards — With women initiating the majority of divorces and modern dating dynamics shifting fast, men are still expected to provide, protect, and perform — while receiving little grace when they fall short. Are men being blamed for a system they didn’t design?

Fatherhood, provision, and identity pressure — Men are judged almost entirely by output and status. When you’re broke, sick, burned out, or failing, society doesn’t ask how you’re doing — it asks what you’re producing.

“Healthy” vs. “toxic” masculinity — Logic is framed as emotional avoidance. Empathy is labeled weakness. Vulnerability is encouraged… until it’s used against you. When men open up, do they get support — or ridicule?

Why the system can be critiqued by everyone except men — Power imbalances, family court bias, emotional disposability — when men raise these issues, the conversation shuts down fast. Why is empathy asymmetrical?

This episode isn’t anti-women. It isn’t political theater. And it sure as hell isn’t sugar-coated.

It’s real talk about men’s mental health, masculinity, dating, fatherhood, purpose, and identity — and why pretending everything is fine is costing lives.

If you’re a man who feels unheard, unseen, or exhausted from carrying it all — this episode is for you.
If you’re willing to listen without flinching — it’s for you too.

Listener discretion advised. Honest conversations guaranteed.

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